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Your Intuition and Romance |
by:
Heidi Richards |
Using all Six Senses to Be More Romantic
“Knowing what your partner wants and needs is your sixth sense or intuition at work.” - Heidi Richards
Call it intuition. Call it ESP. We all have it and can use it to createlasting romantic relationship. When our sixth sense is in full gear, it’s like one of those timeless moments between two people when nothing else inworld matters and no one else exists. I’m not talking sex, here. I am talking when two people connect onlevel beyondphysical. Let me explain. I was married for onesix years togood man; he wasgood father andgood provider. In fact, we seldom had any conflict in our lives. For some women that might be enough. And yet something was missing from our relationship. He just didn’t “get” me. Even after onesix+ years of marriage, he didn’t really know what I liked or what made me tick. It was inevitable that we would not stay together forever.
Then I metman whom I have been with for nearly onefour years. It was like he knew instinctively what I liked without me even telling him. Rarely doesday goes by when one of us doesn’t call each other and talk about somethingother was actually thinking or go tostore and buy dinner (just whatother was craving without verbalizing that craving). We tease one another about how keen our sixth sense is at certain times. I find it very romantic. I call itconnection to something more and greater thanphysical senses are able to distinguish.
And how aboutother five senses? How do we know just which senses we should focus on? If they work to createkind of romance your partner appreciates, then I believe you have what it takes to increasepower of your sixth sense, far beyond touch, taste, sight, smell and sound. Here are some tips for using all six senses to be more romantic (excerpted frombook Romance onBudget – www.romanceonabudget.net):
Sight
Look into my Eyes (#oneone) – When you gaze into each others eyes, everyone else seems to disappear. And looking intensely at one another can sendmessage to your partner that can lead to better things.
Sound
Listen … (#threeseven) – Do you want to knowsecret? Beinggood listener isart. Some people are natural good listeners, others need practice. When you truly listen to one another it demonstrates that you care about what they are saying. It’s most important communication skill insuccessful long-term relationship. If you really want to know your partner’s likes and dislikes, wants and desires, perfectart of listening.
Taste
Hungry for love (#onetwozero) – Visitlocal fruit or vegetable grove together and pick your own. Take your goodies home and cook up something wonderful, then feed it to each other. MMMMMM… Good!
Smell
The scent of you (#foursix) Spray your perfume or cologne onphone most often used by your partner. Or allphones inhouse. This will surely kickromance meter upfew notches. It’s especially effective if you are going out of town.
Touch
Touch me inmorning (#oneonefive) – … inafternoon, inevening. Give your partnermassage. Buy some fragrant massage oils and watchtension turn to pleasure. Take turns.
Intuition
A Hard Day’s Night (#threezero) – Afterhard day’s work, surprise your partner by havingsteaming hot bath ready and waiting. Lightbathroom with candles and yummy scents. After bathing and drying your partner off, show him/ her to your candle lit boudoir, wherebed is ready and waiting with satin sheets and rose petals and soft music is playing. This is where you will proceed to rub his/her body down with scented body massage oil. After working upappetite, haveromantic dinner ready, waiting to be served.
Developing and using all six senses in romance can createconnection that goes deeper – to our souls. Knowing what your partner wants and needs is your sixth sense or intuition at work. When you develop your sixth sense in romance you will instinctively know which ofother five to use when and in which combination to use them.
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| Aboutauthor: © twozerozerofour - Heidi Richards isauthor of The PMS Principles, Powerful Marketing Strategies to Grow Your Business and seven other books. She is alsoFounder & CEO ofWomen’s ECommerce Association, International www.WECAI.org (pronounced wee-k&#twoninenine;) –Internet organization that “Helps Women Do Business onWEB.” She can be reached at www.HeidiRichards.com. |
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