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Love Advice: Let Fate Decide? |
by:
Rick Valens |
One ofmost commonly asked questions, What is Love? What is its exact definition? Well, there can never bedefinite answer. Everyone got his or her own answer to it. To some it can be really simple while to others, it can get really complicated. But one definite thing that is for sure, everybody needs love. It isbasic human need; we are not born into this world to be alone. It has always been our natural instinct as human to reach out to people, to be with and accepted by others. Consciously or subconsciously, everyone is searching and waiting for that special someone to appear in his or her life.
But where and when will this special someone appear? For all you may know, he or she could be just nearby or even just beside you. It all depends on fatelot would say. Fate? Well fate is again, something that cannot be explained, something that is always so amazing. Think about it. Amongmillions and millions of people who could be out there, why is it that you had somehow met your friends to later becomebest of friends? Got retrenched, feeling so terrible and disappointed but to later find your love among your new colleagues in your new job? Life has just suddenly become so beautiful?
Well, this is indeedvery true encounter offriend of mine. Hmm… thinking about it, isn’t there also kind offate between you and me that you are actually reading this article right now? Everything is like all so miraculously arranged, havingreason behind every event that happened.
Do you believe in fate? Personally I definitely do. But again, are we really going to be just sitting around doing nothing, waiting for fate to just come by? Well, I wouldn’t think so. If you are not going to help yourself, who is going to? Fate has always been around us. As long as we are in places where there are people, presence it may be. Many at times, it had actually been there but somehow we just didn’t realized and cherished it when it was there. Sad to know of it, isn’t it so? Well, sometimes we were just too obsessed with our works, dreams and nevertheless too highexpectation that we missed to see it, to cherish that someone who was all along just beside us. It is only too late to realize it now,opportunity won’t drop by twice. Your happiness lies in your own hand, don’t live your liferegret. I am sure you wanna havelife that is so full of fond memories than with tons of regrets, don’t you? Think about it.
Let us just open up ourselves shall we? Everyday isbeautiful day, stop burying yourself with that tons of endless work. Make time for yourself, reach out, make more friends, make new friends, widen up your social circle, livebalanced healthy social life. Make life enjoyable; you will see things inmore different way. You might be going, “Hmm… why is it that all this while, I have never noticed that she is actually suchpretty girl.” Well, in fact this is how true love comes about. It doesn’t always have to belove at first sight, to be attracted to his or her physical look. Sometimes it is throughinitial friendship, enjoyingcompanion of one another that along time, you discoverbeauty of his or her inner human qualities, unknowingly falling in love withperson. Wouldn’t this bemore beautiful and meaningful love than tolove at first sight?
Remember, love has always beengame ever awaiting your participation. Just as in life, it isgame of chance; if you never try you can never win. Well if you did not find your love today, be disappointed do not. It is just like missinglast boat leavingdock.
There will always be another one to pick you upnext morning? And always will there be.
Now, another boat is getting ready to set off soon. Toland of great romance and opportunities it will sail. The question is, will you board it?
Rick Valens
Staff Writer for http://www.loveletterbox.com ,
Love Relationship Discussion Forum
Currently also freelance writer for http://www.ecemetery.org,
Monument of Eternal Memory
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